Forgiving Others

Today I read more than one writing about forgiveness. I am wondering what happened nowadays. I am questioning why everybody is busy writing and thinking and even discussing about it. I took some time to think and I get a conclusion of it. It is not a simple thing. It is not a lesson which is easily to be learned. It is not that easy to forgive others. At least, it is not that easy for us but not for Him.

God, Himself, is a lover. He loves us more and more than our love to Him. He even sacrificed Himself for us. Nobody has the love as amazing as His love. He did it without any understandably reasons. Look at us. We are evil. We are mean. We often being unfaithful to Him. He forgive us and still love us. We should have been perished, but He offers His life for us. We are saved by Him.

When I look at myself, I realize. I am bad. I am an evil. Why? I can not forgive others just because a simple thing. When someone - whom I love - forget to call me, I am mad at him/her, when someone - whom I love, again - ignore me, I am vicious to him/her. This is not love! This is compromise (I took this statement from India movie, lol).

There is no reason to love someone. When you love someone, you will simply forgive him / her for their mistake. People makes mistake, so do I. God himself teach us to pray:
and forgive us our sins,
as we have forgiven those who sin against us
It is not just a pray. He teach us to ask Him to forgive us just like we forgive others. How many times we forgive others? how many times we reject to love others? How many times we think that we already forgive them while we still bury that evil feelings in our heart? How many times our lips says "I forgive you" while our heart says, "Just wait for my revenge" or "You will eat that someday" or just a simple "Whatever".

I suddenly hear my heart says, "Shame on you! how many times you hate people just because they hurt you? How many times your heart keep those bad things about them?" Well, this is okay. I still can bear this kind of shouts. But then I hear the last soft voice in my heart says, " How many times you hurt Him?"

I hurt Him? when? where? I always try to do the right things. I always think to do the good things for Him. I am learning. I am not perfect. Then that voice said, "You are not learning, you are grumbling and whining" Then I said, "Oh, do I?"

Then that glance of scenes appear again in my mind. What did Jesus do when those crowded people shouting at him, spitting at him and crucifying him... He was not whining. He was not grumbling. He did it and He received it all. He fulfilled God's plan. He even asked God to forgive them. I repeat. He even asked God to forgive them. What kind of heart is that! How could He had that kind of love? I am stunned. I stand and freeze.

What have I done?

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  1. You're absolutly right. Forgiveness isn't easy, because it is not natural for us human. Instinctively, when someone hit us we will hit back or duck, not hug and kiss. When someone say something hurtful what we want to do is to say something back at them, and that is surely not i love you, you are precious to me. No way. That is our nature. Forgiveness comes from God, this is something we should understand. God is love, and therefore He wants us to love each others, and we cannot love each others unless we forgive each others, because we tend to make mistakes over and over and over again, therefore we have to forgive over and over again.

    This Christmas time, let's remind ourselves that because God so love this world, therefore He sent His only Son to be born to die for our sins. That is His ultimate forgiveness for this very sinful world.

    Merry Christmas Icha,

  2. Merry Christmas across the miles. I love this post on forgiveness. For me I could not forgive completely until I felt the full forgiveness of God for all I had done, thought or ever could do. That Amazing Grace and mercy motivates and fills me to look upon others who I think betray or hurt me. I say "think" because sometimes it's my perception more than their willfulness when I am hurt or let down.

    The freedom in forgiveness for me is life giving. I forgive others whether they ever understand or not; I know that is my best life. I'm a Christian and the Bible gives me no other options for living a strong good life.

    Again.............Merry Merry Christmas.
    Kay Martin
    Carolinas of USA


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